The Fike Family

Exciting News

2011-10-30T16:12:00.017-04:00

Again it's been FOREVER since I have updated anything but I finally have something important to write about. For those of you who don't know already;

WE'RE PREGNANT!!!

I have to get better about updating this since I will be wanting to keep friends & family informed of all the news about the little one once they are born!
We are really excited. It has been a LONG time coming. I share my story and struggle because I want to give others hope that are in the same situation.
We have been married 13 years. 11 of which we have been trying to have children sitting back watching everyone it seemed around us have their families and being excited for them but wishing at the same time it would happen for us. We finally while living in Baltimore did several rounds of fertility treatments,all different kinds. We ended up getting pregnant on the last one but had a miscarriage early on. This was devastating to us and ended with us not doing anymore for emotional reasons and we ended up moving to Florida. We saw a fertility doctor here about 2 years ago and have looked into adoption but weren't sure where we thought the best place to put our money would be. Adoption is a long process but one we knew would end eventually with a child and IVF is hit or miss, costs a lot of money and there is no guarantee you will have anything to show for it. So we did nothing. For the past 2 years we have talked about it but haven't made much progress one way or another.
And then it happened! After relaxing, not thinking about it day in and day out, we had our little miracle. We found out over Labor Day weekend....actually right before. We were getting ready to fly to West Virginia to visit family for the weekend and I hate flying so I take medication. James suggested that I should take a test. I thought it was ridiculous seeing that just because I was late meant nothing....in 11 years it never did. But I went to get one. He wouldn't let me take it until he got home from work. I started thinking, what if???? By the time he got home I had allowed myself a glimmer of hope which I was getting mad at myself about because every time I did that I would be disappointed. However when he got home I took the test and before the control showed up in the window the result was there....pregnant!!
I was in shock. I ran out of the bathroom saying , "how does this happen?!?!" We cried, then I got extremely nervous remembering what happened the last time a test showed up positive. Within a few weeks I had horrible news. I knew I couldn't handle going through that again so my joy turned to fear. James assured me it would be fine and here we are at week 14 (well, almost on Wednesday) the start of the 2nd trimester already!!!
Things are going well, we are thrilled. Other than being tired (which is getting better), getting bigger and my clothes not fitting I feel fine. I was lucky no real morning sickness. We just bought baby furniture, cleaned out the baby's room and are waiting for the furniture to arrive this week or next.
I definitely had given up hope and watched others have amazing families and were thrilled for them but sad that James and I wouldn't have that. However I guess it is all in God's time and it just wasn't our time yet. What we had to learn or do first I'm not sure but someday we will know. I'm just excited that it's finally our time. Once we started not focusing on it, it happened. Maybe the marathon I ran helped?!?! :) I hear it does for some people. Maybe that's what it took :) !! I plan to run another one in January...2013 !!

9 weeks to go....I missed week 10 :)

2011-03-27T08:18:00.005-04:00

Trying to keep up with this is difficult....

I missed last week so briefly I ran 23 miles the week of March 13th. I had a longer 8 mile run on the 19th and a couple 6 mile runs worked in throughout the week along with training with my personal trainer.

Exciting news....I bought new running shoes. Probably the most $$ I've ever spent but I need a really good pair that are not going to hurt my feet for this long race. So... I had Nike Vamaros (not sure if that is how you spell it) and they were fine but they made my toes numb after about 6 miles and I wasn't super pleased with how they felt after my 1/2 marathon. So, I went to a running store last week and got fitted for Saucony ProGrid Ride 3's (in pink and black...my favorite colors). I LOVE them. Way more room in the toe area and they have some shock thing in the heel that transfers the impact out through your shoe. They feel amazing. I've been running in them for a 2 wks. No foot pain or numbness...Finally!!!

This week I upped my mileage I ran 6 miles Monday, 2 Tuesday I also trained with my trainer on Tuesday for an hour, 6 Thursday, I did an hour of kickboxing on Friday (which I don't recommend the day before a long run!!!!) and I did a LONG 12 mile run yesterday. It hurt! My legs were so sore from kickboxing I did about a 10 minute...or a little less which is SLOW for me but that's the only way I was getting in the mileage this week. So for this week a total of 26 miles. Now if I just put that together in 1 day at one time I would almost be at marathon distance. That's a disturbing thought :) !!!! I'm trying more for miles..just getting them in than speed right now.

I leave today for Buffalo, NY until Wed. for a class for work so my mileage is going to drop this week which lucky for me it was supposed to anyway. I won't be getting in much this week but I will do my best. I have 4 long runs left. A 14 miler starting a week from next Saturday, 16 miles, 18 miles and the big yuck I hate to say it... 20 miler uggggghh!!!

I feel like running is my life. I'm going to admit I'm getting burned out. I'm excited for it to be over. I don't think I will train for a marathon again. It is a lot of work. My 1/2 was a lot of work but nothing like this. 1/2 marathons you can train for a couple months 3 days a week. Marathons are an almost everyday commitment. I'm running 5 days a week. 24+ miles in those 5 days, and I don't like the long Saturday runs. I'm wiped for the day after those. So...that is the past couple weeks. 9 more weeks of hard training....1 week of easy training . 11 weeks until race day :)

11 weeks to go

2011-03-13T19:41:00.005-04:00

Our friends from Baltimore just left :( ... We had a great weekend at the beach and just hanging out visiting with them. I did get my running in while they were here. YAY me...I'm usually a slacker if I have a reason to be. So, for week 10 of training I completed it with on Friday I ran 6 miles and Saturday I ran 4 1/2. I took Wed/Thurs off this past week so I'm ready for a mileage increase this week.....I think.
*Tomorrow the plan is to run 7 miles, I train on Tuesday with my Personal Trainer and I will try and do a couple miles before that. I have an hour of kickboxing on Thursday so probably no running then...if so it will only be a mile or two. Friday I have a 6 mile run planned but I might move that to Wed due to Saturday being a longer run day with an 8 mile run. So total mileage going up this week to around 23-25 miles.

11 weeks left of hard training. 13 weeks until race day :)

2011-03-08T21:30:00.004-05:00

This updating my blog about my training is going to be harder than I thought :)

So...I have been away for work quite a bit lately but I have been trying to keep up with my running schedule as much as I can when you are away from home and out of your normal routine.

While I was in Baltimore I didn't do very well. Then I was away this past week also so starting to train that week was too difficult. I did run 4 miles every day I was gone but nothing more than that.

So this week I am really starting "serious" training. I ran 4 miles yesterday which was March 7th. I also trained with my personal trainer for about 45 minutes after that doing arms and abs. Today I ran 3 miles and did 1 hour of bootcamp. It was my last bootcamp for 4 weeks so I can concentrate on just running. Thank goodness cause it about killed me tonight :). We did all legs and abs...not so fun after just running 4 miles yesterday and 3 before bootcamp :)!!! Tomorrow March 9th I am going to run 4 miles and then I have other runs planned for the rest of the week. We will see how it goes. Our friends are coming down from Baltimore so we want to hang out with them so this weekend I will see how much I can get in without missing time with them. I'm planning 7 miles on Friday and 4-6 on Saturday. We will see. I'm trying to increase my mileage to between 20-25 miles this week...more next week.

So that is what I have been doing to train the past couple weeks. It's hard. I feel like running is my life right now. I hope it gets easier, somedays the little runs are the hardest. I still think I'm crazy to think I can do 26.2 miles but we will see. I still have a long way to go to be ready and not a lot of time...about 10-11 weeks of training left. YIKES!!!!

The Journey to My First Marathon begins.....

2011-02-28T20:53:00.006-05:00

James had an idea that since I actually do have people that follow my blog about my working out, weight loss and running (I can't believe that I'm that interesting or inspiring but I am flattered that people actually do read it and get motivated by my story) that I keep an updated
(that will be different) blog about my journey for training for my first Full Marathon. So I figured why not. I thought about making a whole other blog page for it...but then realized I don't have the time or energy for that so I will use this one :) !!

So as many of you know. I started a 16 week training program but then realized that the first several weeks were just repeats of what I have been doing for the past 1+ years so I signed up for another 6 week boot-camp at the gym which is 2 days/week and a 15K race to keep me going. I figured by the end of it I will be ready to get into the "real" training. So.... I have this week and next week left of boot-camp but I realized that I only have 14 weeks until the race so really only have 12 weeks left to do "REAL" training because the last 2 wks before the race will be very minimum workouts.

Saturday I did my 15K race which got me ready to start my more intense training. I beat my time by 5 minutes from last year when I ran the exact same race so I was pretty proud of myself. Had I not been sick for the previous 2 weeks and still had a lot of congestion I probably would have done even better but there is always next year. I think 5 minutes off my time is pretty good though. So, with that under my belt I started really training as of today so it's a good day to start my journey to my marathon blog. I know I can run at least 13.1 miles..a 1/2 marathon since I did that in January. Now it's time to start training to be able to run the other 13.1......sigh :)!!!

So today Monday Feb. 28th even though I was sore from the race on Saturday I ran 4 miles. Not at a super fast pace but in about 35 minutes. Slower than I would have had I felt my best but a good warm-up for the week. I would have liked to have done 6 but I'm still getting over a cold, my legs were really sore today, and I train with my personal trainer tomorrow and have boot-camp, so tomorrow is a big workout day for me. Before the race on Sat. I hadn't ran more than 14 miles in the past 2 weeks. I have been sick and in Baltimore for work and just couldn't get running to fit into my schedule. So that is what I did today. I still train once a week with a Personal Trainer and do Kickboxing every other week in addition to running. That gives me the cross training I need.

Hopefully this will help others that are wanting to either lose weight, start running or just start doing something to see how someone who has been there and started from scratch and I mean scratch did it and still does it. Until 3 years ago I NEVER ran. I started with it taking me a good 30 minutes to do a mile to now I can run long races (15K, 1/2 marathon's) at around 8:45-9:00 minute miles. I know not super fast for some runners but pretty good for me...I think.
So at least weekly hopefully several times a week I will update this on what I'm doing as the countdown to my marathon is ON...12 weeks of training to go :) !!!

2011-02-11T07:51:00.004-05:00

Winter in Florida...if you call it that.
I used to anticipate groundhogs day so that I could "really" find out how much winter was left. Now it really doesn't make a bit of difference. I could care less if that thing sees his shadow or not. However, the Florida winters the past 2 years have not been so hot. This year I must say has been better than last but still not the 70 degree, sunny, not a cloud in the sky "winter" days I remember from the first 2 years we lived here. I guess I will take the 60 degree weather with the occasional cooler days over the winter. James and I have said if this keeps up we are moving further south. Like....Costa Rica or somewhere :) !!! Just Kidding

We have started landscaping the back yard which I know for all my northern friends seems silly in Feb. , but here it's the best time to do it. Not too hot to be out working in the yard and things grow here now. It's Strawberry season...yummmm and tomato season. It's the only time of year you can get fresh fruits and vegeatables from Florida. During the summer they come from up there :)!!! We have worked on it the past 2 weeks and are taking this weekend off. It's hard work and I now know why people are HIRED to do this!! I'm excited to see the finished product though....someday!

James' parents are here so we are enjoying spending time with them. They have a house about 45 minutes from us and will be here for a few months. We usually get together with them on the weekends.

I officially signed up for the Utah Valley Marathon on June 11th. I think I'm crazy. I don't know why on earth I would decide to do this. After I finished the 1/2 I was disappointed that I wasn't going to be spending my time training for something. They say runners get a low after a race because you train and work hard for so long for something and the excitement of the race builds and then it's over. I think that is true. So what do I do in my disappointment....I sign up for a FULL marathon. Yes people 26.2 miles. I must have lost my mind. I don't know how this is going to happen or what the outcome will be but all I can say is I've lost it. I told myself even 3 months ago that I would NEVER do a full marathon. Well here I go the money is paid so let the training begin. I'm on a 16 week training program. I think I want to do it just to say I did it. I don't really care about my time...kinda. I just don't want to put too much pressure on myself this time (like there will be a next...if I survive ) Anything under 4:20 would be great. That's around a 10 min mile. I did 9min miles in the 1/2 but I couldn't have gone another 1/2 at that pace. So time will tell. I just think I need to find another activity. I don't think people's bodies are meant to run that far but it's would be a huge achievement to finish. They say less than 1% of the population ever finishes a marathon. I would love to be part of that 1% so......train...train....train

James and I are just busy with our church callings. I'm still the Primary President in our ward. James is a financial clerk so between work/training/and church we are pretty busy. I'm going to Baltimore next week for a work conference so I'm looking forward to seeing my brothers and my best friend that I haven't seen in almost 2 years. I'm not however looking forward to the flight. I HATE flying :) So next on my list is Baltimore :) BRRRRRRRR!!!!!

2011-01-14T09:03:00.004-05:00

The month of December flew by and so is January. We have been extremely busy the past month and now that all the "excitement" is over I don't know what to do with myself!! Here is a run down of our past month.
-Right after Thanksgiving we did all of our shopping in preparation for our cruise. We knew that when we got back we would only have 4 days before leaving to go home to WV for Christmas, so shopping needed to be finished. Planning a trip right before Christmas probably wasn't the best idea we have had :)!!
-We went on a 10 day cruise to South America, Panama, Costa Rica and the Carribean. We had a blast. 10 days was a little long on a boat so I was glad to see and be on land again however it was great having that long to just relax.
-When we got home on Monday we unpacked and repacked for our trip to WV to visit family for Christmas. We had a great time at home playing games and just hanging out with all of our family for the Holiday. My brothers were in and all of James family but 1 brother live in WV so we were able to see pretty much everyone. It was really nice since we only get home about once a year.
-WE HAD SNOW. There was snow on the ground from the day we got there until the day we left. So we had a white Christmas. We actually had to postpone our trip home by a day due to the huge snowstorm they had in the northeast. Through the mountains of WV where we were going to be driving they had about a foot of snow the day we were planning on leaving...so we thought it would be best to wait an extra day so they could clear the roads.
-This whole time I knew we had a race coming up the first of January so I was running on the cruise and trying to run in WV. That was interesting with all the ice and snow on the roads. I'm lucky I didn't break my neck :)
-We got home in time for New Year's and just kinda hung out at home playing the Wii and we went to see a movie. It was nice. I got Mario Brother's for the Wii for Christmas (I still love getting toys for Christmas!!)
-This past weekend I ran in my first 1/2 Marathon. It was the Walt Disney World Marathon in Orlando. It was awesome. I felt really good which I usually don't when I'm running so that was a pleasant surprise!! I wanted to finish between 2 hours and 2:05 and I finished in 1:57 so I am THRILLED with my time. It was so fun running with so many people. They had around 27,000 people running. It was awesome to get to run through the Disney Parks and see all the characters. It made the time go by so much faster.
-So this craziness is finally over. I ended all my "stuff" yesterday with surgery on my knee. It's the veins that go behind my knee from my upper leg to my calf. They ended up having to remove a vein and do some other "repair" work. I have had the appt for months but wanted to do it after the race so it didn't interfere with my training. So I'm just recovering and can't wait until Wed to take these first set of bandages off so I can bend my knee!! The rest have to stay on for another week after that but at least I'll be able to bend my leg :)

So that is my story of the past month or so. BUSY!! I'm actually sad everything is over because now I don't know what to do with myself :) I'm sure something will come up.
I have to go to Baltimore for work Feb 16th for a few days. Our whole office is going so that will be fun since we lived there for 6 years. It's always nice to go back, and since my brothers both live there it will be nice to see them.
I am going to start (in 2 weeks when I'm allowed to run again) training for a FULL marathon in either April or June. I think we are looking at doing the Utah Valley Marathon through the Provo Canyon out in Utah in mid June. The other race is in Nashville in April so I don't know if I can be ready by then. I was going to wait until October and do the St. George Marathon but it is VERY difficult to train here in Florida through the summer and I figured I'm already half way right now I might as well finish training and do it. If I wait to do a race in Oct I'll slack off for the next few months. I really want to say I've finished a Marathon!!! So that is the next thing for me

2010-11-27T22:25:00.006-05:00

Wow..I'm actually updating my blog. It's amazing!!!
-We are getting ready for the Holiday's. We are going on a cruise in 5 days...yay!!!
-We had a pretty uneventful Thanksgiving. It was nice just hanging out at home. I cleaned while James played football and then we took naps, put up our Christmas decorations. Inside and out, watched movies and made pizza. We missed our families though. It's not the same not being "home."
-We got up at 5:30 and did some shopping. I had no intention of being productive however I was pleasantly surprised. We finished mostly everything. Thank goodness since I work all this week, we leave Friday for 10 days and we only have 4 days when we get home before we leave to go to WV for Christmas. I work those 4 days so it will be work, unpacking (summer clothes) and re-packing (winter clothes). It is going to feel COLD in WV. It has been rather warm here in Florida so far and over our cruise the countries we are visiting it is supposed to be in the 90's. So winter will come with a shock when we head north that next week BRRRRRR!!!!!!!
-I ran almost 13 miles today in preparation for my 1/2 marathon. I did pretty well. Not the best time but good for my first 1/2. I will try and improve a little before the "big day" but if not I will do better the next time....if there is one :) My goal is under 2:05 which should be easy. I would like to be under 2 hours but I'm not going to put that much pressure on me this time since it's my first one.
- We hope everyone has a great Christmas. I probably won't be updating my blog until who knows when unless I get some time while I'm home for Christmas. We hope you have a great time with your friends and family as we celebrate the birth of our Savior. We love this time of year and can't wait to be home with our family to spend time together...and hopefully see some snow !!

2010-11-16T20:27:00.004-05:00

I haven't had time to get on here to write anything but finally I decided I need to take a minute to let everyone know what I've been up to. It's nothing exciting but here it is:
*My parents ended up moving back to WV about a month ago. They just didn't like Florida so they are back "home." I loved having them here and wished it would have worked out but I'm glad they are happy to be home in WV. They have lived there all of their lives so Florida was a big change for them. Ironically they moved to the same neighborhood just a block behind their old house so it is very familiar to them!
*We went on a cruise over the fourth of July to the Bahamas. It was just a short cruise but we just wanted to get away for the weekend. It was fun, we had a good time.
*We both still have jobs. That is a plus especially in Florida and especially since James is an engineer and not too many things are being built right now.
*We are frantically getting ready for the Holiday's. We are actually going on a cruise in 2 weeks, for 10 days which we can't wait for. We both SO need a break and just want to get away. This is going to be a long one so I hope we really love cruising. We went on a 7 day in Feb. and loved it so I hope we really love 10 days. We are going to Haiti (they own a private beach there...if it is still intact..we will see if we really stop there. Neither one of us are hopeful) Columbia (in South America...Cartegena to be exact), Panama..we are going through some of the Panama Canal, Costa Rica..which is my favorite stop. I have always wanted to go there. Last is Grand Cayman. So we are really excited. The ship we are going on looks amazing and we can't wait.
*We leave 5 days after we return from the cruise to go home for Christmas. So we have the next 2 weekends to get our shopping done and that's it...a little stressful. Next year we will not plan a cruise so close to the Holiday's :) I hope to see snow this year when we go home. I'm looking forward to seeing family and friends back home. I was there briefly to help my parents move here in May but just for a couple days. Other than that it has been a year since I have spent time there so I'm excited to just "go home"
*I'm running in my first 1/2 marathon as soon as we get back from Christmas. It is Jan 8th. It's the Walt Disney World 1/2 marathon . It actually goes through Cinderella's castle and Epcot so it should be fun...if I survive :) I did a training run last week of 12 miles and I didn't prepare well (eating, drinking enough water etc) and it didn't go well so hopefully I can get it together. I hope it's not too rough. I didn't plan this race well. The cruise you can easily gain a pound a day, going home for the Holiday's...enough said, then having to not have extra weight for running a 1/2 marathon is going to be my December challenge :)
*Last...I have kept my weight off. I have actually lost a couple more pounds. I'm at 125 which I'm excited about and bought my first size 0 jeans...EVER!!! And then bought 3 more :) I was thrilled. Not that size matters but after being a size 18 it felt really good. So I'm still working out 4-5 days a week, training, doing bootcamp, running, and kickboxing..which I love. It's like therapy. A good workout and you get all your aggression out :)

So that's it. Like I said nothing really exciting. I'll put a couple pictures on here from our July cruise. We try every other year or so to do a Christmas letter to let our family and friends know what we have been up to. Sorry to all of you who will be getting a letter. It will be mostly a repeat :) !!! I guess I blew all the excitement of the much anticipated Christmas letter :)!!!

I did it!!!

2010-06-05T11:06:00.020-04:00

I just wanted to let you all know that have been following my blog about my weight loss that I'm finished...FINALLY!!! About a week ago I reached my goal weight of 127. I can't believe it and now I don't know what to do with myself. It will be 3 years in October so it has taken a long time but I have worked very hard at it and with all that hard work it reminds me that I never want to do it again. Maybe that will be motivation for me to keep it off :) !! Now I am trying to make the transition to maintaining instead of losing. I thought this would be easy all along but I'm finding it's not as easy as I thought. I'm allowing myself to have a few "bad" things every now and then where I didn't do that hardly ever before. I'm finding though that a few treats here and there leads to a lot of treats throughout the week so I have to be careful with that. I'm also trying to cut back my time at the gym. Instead of 2 hours 5 days a week I'm trying to cut back to 1 hour 4 days a week for now. It's hard!! I have become so used to being there I feel so guilty when I don't go. It's not as easy as I thought but it will just take time to figure out I guess. For 3 years I have been in lose weight mode and now I'm not so it's very strange for me. I can't believe that I finally did it though. I never thought when I started that I would be at the weight I am now. My goal back when I started was only 145 so I can't believe that I'm 18 lbs under that. I'm going to post some "final" pictures of myself :) !!!
...also the month of May has been so busy for us. I've been on a work trip to Chicago and I got to go to Baltimore and visit my brothers and go home to WV to see the house I lived in for the last time. My parents sold their house in WV and moved to Florida. I love having them here. They have been here a week now and they live about 6 miles from us. It is so nice after 12 years to have them close by and get to do things with them again. We are loving it!! I hope they like Florida and don't miss the snow too much. I told them at least they are breaking themselves in fast to the Florida weather. It's already miserably hot and hurricane season started this past week so they are jumping right in :)!!! We are glad they are here and all moved in. They have a beautiful house and I'm looking forward to spending lots of time with them!!

My weight loss story :)

2010-03-19T18:23:00.017-04:00

Okay everyone...I am horrible about keeping this up to date, however I have had SO many people asking me lately about what I have done to lose weight, what has kept me motivated for 2 1/2 years to do it, etc. So, I thought I would write about the changes I have made to my life over the past couple years and my weight loss story. I love talking to people about it because so many of us struggle with losing weight and feel like it's a never ending battle...been there!! I have watched tons of shows, listened to tons of people, and read a pile of fitness magazines over the years..oh yes and have bought many "exercise devices" to try and get a grip on my weight. I love telling people my story because it's coming from me...a person who has done it, and is still doing it...for real. No gimics or wondering hmmm is that person telling the truth, does that really work?? I have been there and done it, and am still doing it. Believe me if I can do it..anyone can. It took me 10 years to motivate myself to do something about my weight and I'm finally doing it!! So here it is...in detail
About 2 1/2 years ago..when we moved to Florida, I woke up, tried on some clothes which I was wearing at the time a size 16-18 (a tight 16-18) and decided I felt horrible about myself and I HAD to do something. When I would drive or ride in the car my arms couldn't fit against my sides because of my huge fat roll. It felt disgusting to me and I wanted it gone. I couldn't even hardly bend over to tie my shoes. I thought, enough I have to do something. I was mad at myself for letting this happen. I was always pretty thin throughout school. Once I got married I gained most of my weight in the next 2 years. I went from a size 6 to around a size 12-14..in just 2 years!!
I knew that I couldn't be responsible for managing my portion sizes. I know this sounds ridiculous because we are all responsible for what we do but I know myself and I had tried "eating better" in the past and it never worked. I also tried every kind of workout. That would always last for a few days or weeks maybe and that was it. So, I went to Jenny Craig. I needed something where it took the guess work and the mistakes that I had made for the past 10 years out of it. I was working 45 minutes from our house and I didn't have time by the time I got home from work to cook a healthy meal. I knew I would be too tired and just eat whatever was easy. So, I knew Jenny Craig would be the best for me. The center was right by my work, I didn't have to prepare ANY food, and my portion sizes would be controlled for me. So, after a lot of thinking about it and talking with my husband we decided that would be the best option for me. It wasn't cheap so it was about a month or two from my initial consultation with them to when I actually went in to "sign up." I weighed in for my first day at 210 pounds. I was shocked!! They set a goal with me of 145 lbs. which I thought I would never get to. That seemed so far off for me at the time, but I was really willing to work at it.
Finally I was doing something about it. The food was actually good, I loved not having to think about what to make or how much I should eat. Now the fun part of exercising came into my life :)!! I have NEVER liked working out. However, I knew that in order to do this I had to start exercising. So, I started running uggggh!!! I started with just about a 1/2 mile and it took me every bit of 30 minutes at first to do that. I remember starting and thinking I looked ridiculous. Here is this BIG girl running around our neighborhood at a snails pace..if that, but I continued doing it almost everyday. I didn't do much else at first but run. Every 2 weeks I would try and run a little more...and a little faster. This was my routine for about a year. Jenny Craig food and running. I never ran more than a couple miles maybe 3 in that first year. That first year I lost about 40 pound, and I did a 5K race around Thanksgiving time and finished just under 30 minutes. I was really excited that I accomplished that.
After the first year I took almost a year off. I still ate Jenny Craig food most of the time but I really didn't do too much exercise. I did run occasionally but I had really slacked off. I was able to maintain what I had lost which was a new accomplishment for me. However, towards August of 2009 I decided I really needed to finish this. I had by this time gained about 10 lbs back and was disappointed in myself that I hadn't finished by now and I had started gaining weight back. One of my friends at work was also wanting to lose weight and we heard about a boot camp this lady was doing outside at the football field where her child played every night. She was a personal trainer with a local gym here and we thought for the price it would be great to start doing something. So we started doing bootcamp with her 3 days a week. It was brutal!! When I started she made us do pushups and on my knees I might have been able to do 3. We were really getting into it and I felt like finally I am doing something and she quit showing up. My friend and I were like great we finally got started on a routine and now it's over...now what. I didn't want to stop because I knew I would lose my motivation and it might be another year before I decided to do something else so, the gym where she used to be a trainer was pretty close to our work so we went there to check it out and joined that gym. I completely committed myself to finishing losing this weight. I had tried multiple times in the past and NEVER finished. I wasn't sure if I would be able to do it but I told myself I was going to try my hardest to do it.
My friend and I met with Jake a personal trainer at the gym and started training with him 2 days a week and going to the gym 5 days a week. Joining the gym and training with him is what has finally helped me to reach my goal. When I first met with him I weighed 167 so I had lost a lot of weight but he set a goal with me of 135. I thought he was crazy. I thought that would take forever and I would never get there. I didn't even remember the last time I weighed that. So, I said okay, completely not believing that I would ever make it to that. So everyday other than Wednesday's and Sunday's I was at the gym for about 2 hours a day. I had also stopped eating Jenny Craig altogether by this point. It did really help me lose weight but I was so tired of eating the same things for the past year + so I was actually making my own food or my new favorite thing for dinner was a protein shake after the gym. I took classes, started really running again, and training with Jake. I ran a 5K about a month ago and finished right around 25 minutes and I just finished a 15 K a few weeks ago and finished in 1 hour 25 minutes. I NEVER thought I would be able to run that far. I run pretty much every day with at least a 6-9 mile run one day a week. I still can't believe running is so much easier for me now. I'm not saying I enjoy it because I don't. Some people that run love it....I don't. I do it because I know it's one of the best ways to burn calories. I do however like doing races I've found. There is just something about running in a race that is exciting. So, I'm training now for a half marathon. I actually did 6 miles of sprint running today :)!!
I'm now down to 134, I've lost 33 lbs since I've started training, which is just under my goal but my trainer and I have set a new goal of around 125-127 so a few more lbs to go. I'm a size 2 (sometimes a 4 depending on the cut of pants ) and I do get a little discouraged because the weight doesn't come off as fast as it did but I will get there...eventually. I've lost 76 lbs as of right now which is AMAZING to me. I see people on the Biggest Loser or on the Jenny Craig commercials that have lost 40 lbs or so and I think wow I've lost that much and more. I am proud of myself and I continue working out 5 days a week about 2 hours a day. I train 1-2 days a week and do several classes. Eating is my struggle. I always like sweets and hamburgers and fries, etc. That has never changed so I just have them in moderation. 1 day a week for 1 meal only I allow myself to eat whatever food I want plus dessert. I am thankful that I started Jenny Craig and along with my consultant there, it helped me in the beginning to lose over 40 lbs, I'm glad that I started a boot camp...even though she quit showing up..at least it gave me motivation to get re-started exercising. Thanks to my husband who puts up with me being gone from home 5 nights a week until around 8:00-8:30 pm since September '09. I know he would rather me be home but I'm thankful he allows me to work hard towards my goal. I'm grateful for having a workout partner at work where we push each other to go to the gym everyday, and when I want to eat something bad I tell her, and she says NO :) !!! I'm very thankful that I have an awesome trainer who as many times as I complain and get down about my weight or don't want to be at the gym..which is often, always keeps me motivated and always lets me know that he knows that I can and will finish. I appreciate him helping me get to my goal.
So, this is my story. It is a daily battle for me. I really try and take it 1 day at a time, and not look where I want to be months from now. I do set future goals but I try hard to work on just today..when it comes to diet and exercise anyway :)!! Everyday when I get up I think..okay today I'm going to eat good ALL day, I'm not going to have any junk, and I'm going to go to the gym after work. Believe me it doesn't always happen and I do get discouraged. Life..and those of you who know me well... cake... gets in the way but I really try and make it happen everyday. I have a busy schedule but I try very hard not to let anything interfere with my workout time unless it has to be done. I know if I let that happen too many times I will become very lazy about working out and once I get off track it's hard to get myself back on. It has been a long struggle and a long journey. It's not over yet. It never will be. Once I reach my goal then I have to maintain it for the rest of my life. I never want to allow myself to be in that position again and that alone keeps me motivated. I am really proud of myself. I am thankful for everyone's interest and nice comments. I can't believe I've lost that much weight. For awhile when I looked in the mirror I didn't recognize myself. It's been a long 2 1/2 years but I'm so happy with what I've accomplished and I can't wait until I'm finished!!

2009-12-31T14:47:00.008-05:00

Okay....so I haven't been on here forever. We just got back from WV where we spent 10 days at home with our families for Christmas. We had a great time and even got to see some snow..FINALLY..while we were there. We miss seeing it, but don't want to live in it. We woke up the first morning to snow and then about 1 day later James and I decided we had seen enough. We had a great Christmas with our families and are now back in Florida and back to the everyday tasks. At least it's warm though :) !!! We are getting ready for a cruise in about 5 weeks. It's my trip for FINALLY reaching my goal weight..actually I'm 10 lbs under it. James promised me a trip when I began on my weight loss journey 2 years ago..if I ever got to my goal. I am proud to say I have passed it months ago and have set a new goal for myself of about 7-10 more lbs...and then I will be finished FINALLY. So, I hate flying so we decided a cruise would be best. I'm really excited. We got our passports in the mail last week and we are more than ready!! Other than that nothing new. We are looking forward to family coming to visit. James parents will be here in a few weeks for the winter and my parents are coming for the month of February. We are looking forward to spending time with them!! Hope everyone had a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year.

2009-09-02T09:43:00.004-04:00

My dad just came to visit for the week. We had a great time. I'm sad that he left this morning but we will be in WV for my brothers wedding in a month. We had so much fun now I'm bored :) !! We took a ferry to Caladesi Island just north of Clearwater Beach where they had amazing shells. We went to Siesta Key Beach, in Sarasota for sunset, Lido Beach in Sarasota during one of the days he was here and we went shopping at St. Armands Circle. We went to Fort Desoto Beach and walked around. Went to ride airboats and got to see some alligators and had lunch at Downtown Disney. We took my dad to a lot of different resaurants and got to do and see a lot of things. We had fun and I'll miss him!!!

2009-08-22T08:05:00.003-04:00

Toby loves to pick up things and carry them around...in his mouth of course. I usually find him with as much as he can stuff in walking around the house. Well a couple weeks ago I was cleaning and he likes to take off our socks when we get home. I don't know why but ever since he was a puppy he has liked socks. So by the end of the week we have an accumulation of socks around the house it seems. So I picked them up and put them in the laundry basket and came back out into the kitchen to do some cleaning. A few minutes later what do I see... he had gathered up all of those socks and his toy(the yellow things...it's a duck)and a treat...which you can't see but believe me it's in there too and brought them all back out. He is SO cute!!!!

2009-08-22T07:44:00.003-04:00

I know it has been forever since I have wrote on here. I just can't seem to find the time between facebook, email, going to the gym, work, etc, etc, etc. So since July let's see....what have we been doing??? Well, for our 11 year anniversary James took me to St. Augustine on the Atlantic side of Florida just south of Jacksonville. We stayed at a Bed and Breakfast which I've always wanted to do but have always been hesitant about. I LOVED IT!!! It was amazing. The city is very old and has lot's of little streets with shops and restaurants tucked away everywhere. The B&B was just amazing. I'll post a few pictures. The innkeepers were so friendly and we sat on the porch overlooking the water every morning for breakfast and it was just wonderful.
August so far has been busy but pretty uneventful. We had a water leak in our new house which is always fun. It spread into another bedroom and surrounding closets, so they had to come and repair a bunch of stuff this whole month. But, finally after A LOT of headache, that is fixed as of yesterday and everything is back together.
The most exciting thing this month is that as of this Wednesday I'm off for about 9-10 days and my dad is coming to visit from WV. I pick him up from the airport this Thursday. I'm SO excited. We have lived down here for 2 1/2 years and this will be his first visit. My mom came in May so it will be nice to take my dad around and do some things. He will be here for about a week. The only bad thing is my mom had great weather in May and my dad...well this time of year from July until September is just HOT!!!!!
That is all that is going on with the Fike's :) We are looking forward to going home in October. My brother Matt is getting married. This is the first time since we have been married that we haven't been home since Christmas. That is the only hard thing about living in Flordia. I wish we were closer to family. When we were in Baltimore we at least went home 4-5 maybe 6 times a year. Now it's seems 2 maybe 3 if there are weddings. Last year we went home for Jason's wedding and this year Matt's. I can't believe we are all married...well soon to be, and we all have been married in birth order. First me , then Jason and now Matt. I thought that was interesting. How time flies!!!

Our Baltimore trip

2009-07-06T19:33:00.003-04:00

We just flew back this morning from visiting friends and family in Baltimore for the past several days. We had a great time. It was nice to go back to where we lived for 6 years and see our friends and see how things have changed. We haven't been back for 2 years since we sold our house there so it was nice to see everyone. We got to stay with my best friend Michelle and her husband at their house on the Eastern Shore for a couple days. They live right on the water and James was able to go out and get crabs. We miss Maryland crabs so they took us to a great place to eat and we got crabs and ate at their house. We always wanted to go to St. Michaels so we went there for the day and went to the cute shops around that town. It was fun. We also went back to Ocean City with them which was a lot of fun. We got Fishers popcorn to take home and all the good food we miss from Ocean City. Including UTZ chips...I brought a bag home...YUM!! We had a great time sitting outside on their deck by the water and just hanging out. The weather was PERFECT!!! We miss them a ton!! We also got to eat lunch with my brother and his wife at our favorite crab place in Baltimore.Then went up to Pennsylvania to stay with our other friends. We had a great time there too. We got to go to see our old house that we lived in which was kinda sad. We had the house built and didn't live their very long. It looks really nice though. We also got to go to my favorite orchard market there and get "treats" They set off fireworks the night of the 4th and it was a lot of fun. We had a great time hanging out with them and their kids. We miss them a lot!! And last we got to see my other brother and his soon to be wife our last night there. We stayed with them to be close to the airport this morning to fly home. It was great going back and reliving memories and visiting with everyone. We miss everyone and had a great time. We got to pick up Toby today from "Doggie Camp" He did well and had fun. It's nice to have him home!!

Baltimore Trip July 2009

2009-07-06T19:21:00.006-04:00

More pictures of my mom's trip

2009-05-08T09:49:00.005-04:00

These are more pictures of my mom's trip to Florida
The T-Rex restaurant and Downtown Disney where we saw Cirque Du Soleil
The restaurant called the Roaring 20's where this guy plays a huge Wurlitzer organ during dinner.

We miss everyone and really enjoyed visiting with some of our friends and my mom. It has been a fun month and now James and I don't know what to do with ourselves! Anyone else want to come visit???

2009-05-08T09:23:00.010-04:00

Well, James and I are lonely now. I haven't had a chance to update my blog due to company. We have had a whirlwind of guests since the end of March. Here is what we have been up to:
The last week of March we went to Ft. Lauderdale/Miami to visit with my best friend Michelle and her husband who flew down from Baltimore to go on a cruise. James and I stayed the weekend and met them at the airport to go to lunch and then dropped them off at the cruise terminal. It was a short visit but I loved seeing them. I miss Michelle:)!!

Then the next two weekends James parents stayed at our house. We loved having them here and playing cards and things. They helped me and my friend Maria can 44 jars of homemade pizza sauce. Pizza isn't the same without that homemade sauce :)

Then the next week James brother and his wife and their 3 kids came to visit from Utah. We had a lot of fun with them. We went to the beach, dinner, and just hanging out and visiting.

Then after they left our friends that we miss a lot flew in from Baltimore to visit. They brought there 3 kids who have really grown up since we moved 2 years ago and they have a new baby that we hadn't got to see yet so we really enjoyed spending time with them. We went to the beach, miniature golfing where we got to feed the alligators, and to Busch Gardens so it was lot of fun.

Then last but not least my mom came to visit for a week. She just left yesterday and I miss her terribly. We had such a fun week. We went to the Tampa Bay Rays baseball game..they played the Red Sox. We went on a airboat ride in the Florida Everglades down close to Naples. We took her to the beach to watch the sunset, to a a place called the Roaring 20's where they have a huge Wurlitzer organ that a guy plays during dinner (my mom plays the organ) I took her for Mother's Day to the Cirque Du Soleil show in Orlando and we ate at a fun place called the T-Rex. Other than that justgoing to dinner at places they don't have in West Virginia and shopping. It was a lot of fun and we were BUSY!!

2009-03-13T08:40:00.003-04:00

More New Orleans Pictures: We we got some beads from a parade on Bourbon Street. Carolyn and I at CVS (we shared a room) our room was on the 40th floor (our 2nd room...the first had no hot water!!! That made for a fun first day!!) so, we got some great pictures of the city and of the Mississippi River!

2009-03-13T08:29:00.004-04:00

Well, I'm back from New Orleans...and that's all I'm going to say about that. Really, I had a good time. The flights were good I didn't do too bad (for all of you that know how I HATE flying...hate actually doesn't do it justice!!) I didn't get to see too much of the city, we were in conferences all day. We were there from Wednesday to Sunday, so it was mostly at night when we got to go exploring. By the way... not a safe city to explore. Our hotel was on Canal Street in the heart of the French Quarter area so that was neat to be right there. The trip can be summed up by:
1. The food was GREAT
2. The people are different, and rude (for the most part)
3. The city smells dirty
4. The city is dirty.
5. Every time we went out of our hotel we were "cat called" to or followed (not safe)
6. Interesting to see... but will never return!!

Valentines Eve

2009-02-13T23:06:00.002-05:00

James always tries to make me feel special. I love it. Friday nights are usually pretty boring in our house because I'm off but James works all day and when he gets home he is tired. So, we usually have pretty lame Friday nights. However, every so often he will call from work which he did today and tell me to be ready he is taking me somewhere. We always have date night every Saturday night so doing it 2 nights in a row is rare. I was so excited today, so I was ready and when he got home, he took me shopping. He does this once every few months where he doesn't complain at how long it takes me, what I buy, and he doesn't tell me "that's enough." I love that. He tries so hard to make me happy. So, tonight we went to the outlet malls about 20 miles from our house and shopped for over 2 hours. It was FUN! He never told me no, don't go in there or that's a lot of money. He just lets me get whatever. I love those nights :) He's a great husband. I love that he does things he doesn't enjoy every once in awhile just to see me happy. Not that I'm not the rest of the time but he does it just to make me feel special. Tomorrow for our Valentine's Day we are going to do a service project in the morning and then go out to dinner and to a pro hockey game tomorrow night. The Tampa Bay lightning are playing the hockey team from Washington DC (the Capitals I think) Happy Valentines Day everyone!

2009-02-12T19:05:00.001-05:00

Another week and another illness. It seems like lately all I do is get sick. I'm blaming James for this cold though. He was sick last week and now I have it....but worse. I just got over the stomach flu which has been flowing around here like water. I just had it not more than 2 weeks ago and now this. I think ultimately it is FLORIDA. I've come to the conclusion that cold winters maybe are a good thing. Don't get me wrong, I never want to deal with winter again...well I won't say never but it kills things when it is 5 degrees outside. When it's 70 all winter things just keep growing and blooming. Lots of things bloom here in the winter and so I also have allergies ALL year long,unlike up north where I just had them in the spring. Someday I'll get over all of this so I can run again. Right now I would pass out.....I CAN'T BREATHE!!!

2009-01-24T12:16:00.002-05:00

It's Saturday!! I'm kinda bummed today because James had to go into work to finish a project. I don't like Saturday's when he has to go in. It happens very rarely however I enjoy my weekends spending time with him since we are so busy during the week. I miss him!! I'm making his favorite cookies, snicker doodles for when he gets home though! :) Friday night was fun. We had some friends over and played games and had a good time. I took Toby for a walk yesterday as the sun was setting and sometimes I forget how beautiful things are. I get so busy I don't take time to stop and "look around." The sun was just getting ready to set and it was bright orange and the palm trees were right in front of it and they were so pretty. I love the Florida sunsets. You don't have to even be at the beach, just outside of our house. The sun after it goes down leaves an orange glow in the sky and the palm trees were dark and it looked just like a postcard. It was so pretty!! Toby was funny last night too. I went to go to bed and he was laying in between my legs while I was ready and I told him to move so I could lay down. He, by the way, does not like to be bothered when he is sleepy or sleeping. He ignored me and then I told him to move again and he looked at me sighed really loud and got down into his bed (which he doesn't sleep in, he sleeps in ours every night) and didn't get back in bed with us at all last night. I even got up in the middle of the night and put his blanket over him and he got up and shook it off of him and went back to sleep. HE WAS MAD!!! He does have an attitude sometimes :)

2009-01-21T19:43:00.004-05:00

It has been so long since I have been on here. It seems like during the week I just don't have time and on my days off I have a million other things to do. It is hard keeping up with my blog, email, and facebook :)!! Also, I have the challenge of not feeling like I have anything important to say. Since we got home from Christmas we really haven't done anything exciting. We have been hanging out with friends on Friday nights doing dinner and games. We have made some really great friends here in Florida and are very thankful for them, the fun times we have together and that they are part of our lives. I got the Twilight books for Christmas and have not been able to put them down. I have already read the first three since we have been home and started the fouth one last night. I LOVE THEM!!! I don't know what I'm going to do when I'm done. I have been running. This week it has been COLD......well in the 50's during the day but COLD for here. I know no one seems to feel too sorry for me. So, I didn't run yesterday because I was freezing. Tomorrow it is supposed to be up in the 60's again and then 70's this weekend so back to running. That is really it. I know nothing exciting but that is what I have been up to. Maybe next time I will have something more exciting to talk about :)

2009-01-01T09:42:00.001-05:00

Happy New Year!!
Our new year was pretty average but it was fun hanging out with each other. We went to dinner at a Mexican restaurant, went to WalMart to get sparkling juice, came home and I played with my Cricut machine I got for Christmas (it is used for scrapbooking, cards, etc. It cuts out words, pictures, everything for you.) Then James and I went to get dessert at Sonic. After that we played games and drank our juice and went to bed at 12:09. Kinda lame but James had to work so he was tired and I can always sleep. So this morning we are going to do some projects around the house and maybe head to the beach to walk around and read our books. I got the Twilight series for Christmas and I'm already halfway through the first one and I can't put it down :)

2009-01-01T09:26:00.002-05:00

We had a great time at Christmas this year. All of my family was home with Jason's new wife Amanda and Matt's girlfriend Holly. We don't all get together often so it was a lot of fun. We went out to dinner, played Wii (thanks Amanda for bringing it), we drove around on Christmas Eve to look at lights, went to a 11:00 Christmas Eve candlelight service, we played games, and ate WAY too much. My dad's side of the family on Sunday evening had a reunion also. They had a catered dinner that was really nice and for the first time they had a photographer come to take a group picture and individual family pictures. So, it was really nice. I enjoyed spending time with everyone. We had a great time with James' parents also. His mom cooked a great Christmas Eve dinner and we played cards. We had a big Christmas dinner on Christmas day with his family which there were over 30 people there. It was nice to see everyone. His sister Janice had everyone over on Saturday to watch the WV play in the bowl game. So, we had lot's of good food there too. It was great to see everyone. We didn't want to come home. It was really nice to get to spend time with family. Our trip home was not so great it took us over 16 hours to get home due to traffic, we we were exhausted and Toby was ready to get out of the car. He did really good though. I love Christmas time. James and I are kinda sad it is over but we have lot's of wonderful memories from this year. It was probably one of the best Christmases we've had.

Christmas at James' parents house

2009-01-01T09:21:00.010-05:00

Christmas at my parents house

2009-01-01T09:14:00.010-05:00

2008-12-20T08:53:00.001-05:00

In addition to my post yesterday. No, they didn't come. Can you believe it. I called right at 9:00 to see where they were and the lady said they would still be a half an hour. So needless to say they rescheduled. Better luck next time......maybe! I'm not holding out much hope.

2008-12-19T08:39:00.002-05:00

Morning all!! So, I'm sitting here waiting on the tile people to come and I thought I might as well right something today. Since our house was new when we bought it we get a year for them to come and fix things. Well luckily the only thing that needed fixed was some cracks in the grout line around some of the tiles. So they are supposed to come today. I love when they give you a time window. On Tuesday they said "we will be there between 8-12." Like I have nothing else to do but be stuck at home for 4 hours HOPING they might make it at 8 or I'd even be happy with 9 or 10. It's the Holiday's people... I have things to do. So on Tuesday I cleaned the house and then waited and waited and waited and around 12:30 they call to tell me they are running late SURPRISE!!! I told them I would have to reschedule that I had things I needed to do (imagine that). I think these people think we should block out the whole week so we are free all day every day so they can come anytime they feel like it. SO, today is the day I rescheduled for. They said "we will put you first on our list and will be there between 8-9." So here I am again, waiting. I have a lot to do today. James and I are leaving Monday for a week and I need to run some errands. Well everyone it is 8:49 and I'm counting down the minutes before I leave the house and tell them to FORGET IT. I got up early today on my day off, got ready really fast, took Toby out, not on his usual walk but just out fast so I could be ready by 8:00. I was really holding out hope since they didn't come Tuesday they would be here first thing this morning. WRONG!! Anyway, I'm trying not to let it ruin my day but I hate dealing with companies that give you that dreaded time window!! Happy Friday everyone.

Christmas cookies DONE

2008-12-13T08:31:00.013-05:00

So FINALLY I'm done with my Christmas baking. I thought this year I would make a bunch of cookies and take them to some of our friends around here. I started at 9:30 yesterday morning and didn't finish until 6:00. I was EXHAUSTED!! My legs still hurt today from standing up all day on the tile floor. I didn't burn any which is good for me. I usually get bored with it after awhile and forget I have cookies in the oven. It seems to happen every time but not yesterday. I will never I repeat NEVER bake that many cookies at one time ever again. I also did sugar cookie cutouts with icing that are not in the picture. Next year everyone gets one cookie a person of the same kind :)

Christmas

2008-12-11T19:34:00.008-05:00

I think one of the reasons I enjoy Christmas so much (minus the shopping) is due to the wonderful memories I have and the traditions that my family had as I was growing up. I can't wait to someday (soon hopefully) do most of those same traditions with my family. James and I do a few of them now and we have also started our own. I just wanted to write some of the memories I had growing up which started with my brothers and I making paper chains to count down the days until Christmas. I loved doing that and hanging them around our room. We also watched all those movies that are considered "timeless" now (that's scary) like Rudolph and Frosty. We always went to the mall to see Santa and ride the train. Going shopping for each other at a store that was meant for little kids in the mall and our elementary school also had a little shop where I always bought something for myself. The shopping habits start so young! We always begged my mom to do cutout sugar cookies. I know now she didn't like all the work ( I still beg her when I'm in) but we always did them. She also would make gingerbread houses. I love that to this day our family even though it has gotten bigger with wives, girlfriends, and husbands, all every Christmas Eve even if we have to take multiple cars, carivan around to look at Christmas lights. My dad always guides the tour. When we were little we did that went home to put out cookies and sugar for the reindeer and then went to bed. We always went out to get a real Christmas tree. My parents never complained (at least to us) about the getting it, hauling it in the house, decorating it, etc. Now that I do it myself I complain every year. What a pain to go through all of that for a few weeks. I love it though, when it's done. I like sitting in our family room now (in my house) with just the Christmas tree lights on. It reminds me of Christmas Eve at our house when I was little. I love this season for all the good memories, the ones being made every year, and the reason why we really celebrate this season. For the birth of our Savior and what that night meant for each of us.

2008-12-11T19:22:00.004-05:00

Finally it's Friday for me!! I like my job here in Florida but itis always nice when it's Friday. I have been doing orthodontic assisting for about 7 years. I went to school shortly after moving to Baltimore to become a Certified Orthodontic Assistant. I really enjoy it but I always like to be home. Tomorrow I'm going to do some baking for Christmas. James and I are going to deliver some cookies to some of our friends. I'm also so glad I'm done Christmas shopping. I finally finished this past week. Just in time since we leave to go home to WV for Christmas 1 week from Monday. I love the Christmas season, the meaning of it, the tree, the baking, being with family and friends, and all the traditions that go along with it, however, I hate the shopping. Any other time of the year you can't beg me to stop shopping (ask James he knows) but Christmas time I despise it.

2008-12-10T21:17:00.000-05:00

I finally ran my first race. Something I've always wanted to do. James has been running for a long time and has done several marathons.I've always wished I could do something like that. So finally I DID IT. This picture has James, myself, our nephew Ben, my sister in law Amy and her niece Blair. We ran it in WV over Thanksgiving. I don't think I will ever do a marathon or a half for that matter. I don't enjoy running that much, but I do hope to do another race soon.

2008-12-10T20:51:00.000-05:00

I can't believe I turned 30 this year. I had mixed emotions about the big day. I think time seems to go by so much faster now.I remember growing up, summers seemed to go on forever, now they are over before I even realize it. On my birthday I thought of it as a milestone. I lost a lot (around 55 lbs) of weight over the course of the year leading up to it which I had wanted to do before I turned 30 so I was proud of myself. However I kept thinking if the next 10 years goes by as fast as my 20's did, I'll be 40 before I know it. Now that is SCARY!!

Our life in summary

2008-12-10T20:30:00.000-05:00

For those of you I don't get the chance to talk to very often, I thought I would give you a run down on James and I . After knowing OF each other our whole lives, you see James is 5 years older than me so when he was 18 it wasn't "cool" to be hanging around me. I finally reached the age where it wasn't as bad to be dating. It isn't so bad when you're 25 dating a 20 year old but when you're 20 and dating a 15 year old that's a different story. So anyway, after a short dating period we got married in 1998. I can't believe how time has flown by. We lived in Parkersburg, WV when we first got married for about a year. James was going to school at the time and we ended up having to move to Morgantown,WV so he could finish school at WVU. We loved it there. We met some really good friends there that still to this day are some of our best friends. We lived there for I think 2 years and then James graduated and we moved to Baltimore. We lived in 3 different towns there all within the metro area. Our last house we had built which was just across the MD line into PA. We lived in Baltimore for 6 years. We only got to live in our house we built for almost 2 when we decided we would like to move to a warmer climate. We don't particuraly miss Baltimore but we made some very close friends there and we really miss them. Along with our friends both of my brother's live in Baltimore so it was a hard move. So now we have been in Florida for a year and a half. I can't believe it has been that long already. We love it here and have met some great people that I'm sure we will be friends with forever. So that is a summary of where we have lived over the past 10 years. Next will be what we have been up to over these past years :)

My first attempt.

2008-12-10T20:23:00.000-05:00

Okay people, this is my first ever blog attempt. I am inspired by all of my friends who have such creative blogs and I can't seem to figure out how to get mine to be creative. I need help. I can't get good backgrounds or anything. I've avoided this for a long time due to my lack of experience in the "blogging" world but have decided I would try to do this since we live so far away from family and our friends we left in Baltimore. Maybe one day mine will be creative and look put together.